Ill try to keep it as short as pos.
Last year my child went to a youth club, I ended up taking him out after a couple of months as it was run poorley, the adults were smoking around the kids and a few of the leaders shouted and screamed at the kids like possessed nazi's.
Anyway, one of the leaders started to take her child to the same school as my child so I inevitably saw her almost everyday at school, mostly in the car park.
Those of us that drive to school tend to get there about half an hour early, otherwise you don't get a parking space. This means sitting in the car park from about 2:30 to 3pm but I don't mind as I sit and listen to my CD's or read.
Anyway, this woman began parking next to me all the time and ended up inviting me to sit in her car for a chat which I did to be sociable. As soon as I got in I wished I hadn't, the car stunk, it was a complete tip, the chairs were filthy and her baby's fingers were actually stuck together with mushed up food etc, it made me feel physically sick. Apart from that this woman was incredibly loud, shouting and swearing whilst re-living things that had happened to her during the week...it was that bad that people were actually looking into the car thinking we were arguining!
I assumed she'd only ask me the once but she caught me off guard the day after too and I couldnt think of a good enough reason to say no so I ended up in the health hazard a 2nd time.
The day after I tried to avoid all eye contact, parked away from her etc and it seemed to work on one or 2 occasions.
Anyway after the summer hols she started it up again, waving me into her car etc so again I started avoiding eye contact, parking away etc and she became much more determined! last week she actually walked across from her car to mine just to knock on my car window and ask me to go and sit in her car! She has even gone as far as to hold her baby up against her car window and get her to shout of me and bang on the glass! I've tried ignoring them, pretending I can't hear them/see them, made up excuses such as "I've got a cold, don't want your little one to catch it" etc etc and have now resorted in taking a book to read, what really pisses me off is that she see's me engrossed in my book and still tries to get my attention, using her baby or walking across or knocking on the door etc!! It's driving me mad.
It's not because she's lonely as she even does it when her hubby is sat in the car with her!
Am I being too subtle or is she just ignoring the hints??
If you see someone sat in their car listening to their music reading a book would you not assume that they wanted to be left alone??
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Am I being too subtle??
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Thaigal · 25/09/2006 19:25
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