I have often heard people say in the past that they treat people however that person treats them. I have never done this, as I try to be decent and kind to everyone, however much as I hate the phrase I think I am in danger of being "too nice", and I need to start treating people as they treat me. Does anyone else do this?
I don't mean that I want to fall out with people, or be horrible in any way, just to stop being quite so considerate and nice to friends that aren't as considerate towards me (but are to other people). People who repeatedly ignore my supportive replies on their facebook statuses. People whose childrens' birthdays I always remember and acknowledge but who never reciprocate. Friends that I drop things for and repeatedly do favours for but who don't really seem to value me.
I am thinking of maybe keeping myself to myself more, not being so available and open and friendly, and making people make a bit of effort for me.
Do any of you treat people in the way in which they treat you? How do you go about it?
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educatingcats · 17/09/2014 10:55
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