It was almost 10 months ago since he first told me that he had cheated on our now 14 year year marriage. We have 3 beautiful daughters and I had just had our third daughter when it started to happen. It was an on and off again physical relationship over the period of 2 years. This person that he had cheated with was actually a family friend, a person that had spent a lot of time with our family and often in our home. I am currently trying to work through it with my husband, but I was hurt so badly that I have put up a wall around myself and I'm not sure if I can take it down. My husband has been sleeping on the couch now for 10 months, and at first we tried to hide that from our children, but we eventually had to make up excuses to our kids as to why he was not sleeping in our bed. He is going to counselling to work on his issues, but I feel completely stuck. I haven't done anything to help myself and I can't seem to make any decisions.
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My husband cheated on me, and I don't know if I am too broken to stay with him or not?
Brokenwoman14 · 17/09/2014 08:27
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