Have nc'd for this, as it's not very dignified.
A small bit of background...DH and I are having a bit of a rubbish time, same old work pressures, young kids blah blah. We are both know what the problems are, but things are ok for a few weeks then go downhill again. But on the whole, you know, it's fine and we've two young kids so we'll stick it out for a while.
But.
A few months ago, I met someone who has been occupying rather too much of my headspace since. I don't see him very often, but he is connected to DH and so our paths cross. A few weeks ago, we all had a night out and I really enjoyed his company (he's single). We then had a few messages after the event. DH doesn't know about this, and they are ostensibly innocent messages, but I shouldn't have indulged. Nothing will happen, I think I'm just emerging from that cocoon of small kids, and enjoyed the attention and thrill of the 'new'.
So my concern is now that this guy thinks I'm a complete floozy. I've never done anything similar in the 10 years DH and I have been together. What can I do about this, it's quite likely our paths will cross again soon, and I hate the idea that he is left with the impression I just 'take up' with the first bloke who buys me a drink in the pub.
I just need to suck it up, don't I?
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Small transgression, how to restore dignity
FallenFigs · 15/09/2014 11:28
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