I found out only 2 weeks ago husband having an affair. He wants to walk away from marriage of 14 years. I'm trying to get my head around it all but he is being really arsey about things. He moves out at end of month into a flat. He has promised to pay maintenance to kids & half the mortgage, but I know he won't be able to afford this in the long run as he is crap with money. He's told me to make alternative child care arrangements when I go to work, as he won't help out. He won't sign papers to take his name off the joint account. And he wants the TV off our bedroom wall because the one in the flat is too small. He is being so nasty & cold towards me, when I feel non of this is my fault. He's had the affair, he's walking away, yet he makes me feel to blame. He has no remorse or guilt for what he's done!
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