'It's not your money, it's not my money, it's the DC's money' regarding the maintenance payments he makes each month.
I have tried to see his point of view and why he found this 'disrespectful' but for the life of me I can't. He really wants me to understand his point of view and apologise, but without understanding his point of view I can't apologise!
He has tried to explain but I still don't get it.
Is it an unkind thing to say? Is it diminishing his role? I just thought it was an accurate discription.
Any ideas? I suspect tbh that he was just picking a row and there is another issue at the root of it, but I don't want to be dismissive if he does have a point and IABU?
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theendoftheendoftheend · 30/08/2014 23:16
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