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Is your current Husband/Boyfriend the best lover you have had? Be honest!!!!haha

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bridget75 · 30/08/2014 17:24

I was reading the thread about what you don't miss about your ex's, and was going to start listing everything I hated about him, but the list got way to long! Haha... He was such an arsehole! Then it struck me that the one thing I do miss is the amazing sex we had, in fact.....that's the only thing we had. God.... was that man amazing in bed.

My current bf is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I love him so much, but he was hopeless at sex when we first met. I have had to educate him , and although he will never be a stud like my ex, he is so sweet. I can't deny though that I do miss the sex I had with my ex.

What about the rest of you? Remember, be honest!

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daisychain01 · 30/08/2014 17:27

It's crude and shallow to compare.

Sorry. Just like I wouldn't want anyone I had been involved with to " rate" me against other lovers.

Ask me any other thing and Id tell you, but the intimates... Nope.

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Smartiepants79 · 30/08/2014 17:31

Well he's the only lover I've ever had so I'll have to say yes!
I've never really understood how you can have 'amazing' sex with someone who treats you like shit. How can you enjoy that kind of intimacy with someone who you have no respect for and in fact don't really like very much.
But then I'm quite an inhibited person in many ways and the physical side of relationships is not an extremely high priority for me.
I enjoy our love life but there are many things about him that matter to me more.

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