I would like a divorce but have kept putting it off for years and just can't quite do it. My husband threatening not to pay the school fees didn't help.
I suspect that he has been unfaithful as I admit that for the last year or so have been checking his messages after discovering condoms in his pocket.
When I tackled him about the condoms he said they were are old ones,we used.
He goes abroad a lot for work and out drinking quite a lot so I suspect there may be some one night stands but I have no real proof only an odd message meeting someone for dinner in USA.
I wonder if a detective would help me get some evidence ,then I feel it would help me get out of my marriage.
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Anyone hired a private detective?
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conway · 28/08/2014 20:08
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