A family spending holiday together and doing everything together but keep telling each other they can do their own thing, but still being together?
For example: A couple with two adult children in a amazing beach location abroad sharing a villa accommodation. They keep saying that anyone is free to do what they want but they stick together, fine.
Than the daughter who is 37 feels the heat and is not well, decides to stay in the room for the whole day. Everyone does the same. But following day she is still no well. They go as much as the villa swimming pool but don't do anything else. Because the daughter who is 37 is not well.
By the evening, everyone is inpatient with each other, snapping and saying they are definitely not staying in on the following day which is the last day. They stayed in because it was their choice, they say, as people are supposed to do their own thing and don't need to stick together.
Following day, they all want to do different things but they keep saying to each other, anyone can go off and do whatever, but they keep, unhappily sticking together and snapping at each other.
I was watching it. I was there. I was the only one doing my own thing.
I think they are all mad, but is it me being selfish?
They are all saying what an amazing time they had, FB and all. And I know it is not true.
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GoMe · 27/08/2014 16:02
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