I'm set to marry my lovely DP in a few months, but after being an avid mumsnet reader for years I'm starting to worry.
My DP is bloody wonderful, absolutely no red flags whatsoever (I have been hyper alert for these ), we have talked at great length about sharing finances/children and we agree how we plan to do it, plus room for any changes.
I've also lived with him for a year (been together three) so I feel like I've "tested the goods". We really are blissfully happy and I genuinely don't think I'd find someone better.
But I read so many threads on here about women with awful DHs and I'm assuming most of them weren't like that before marriage or the DW wouldn't have married them! I'm worried (for no particular reason as there's definitely no signs of this) that my DP will randomly turn into a monster after marriage :(.
I really do want to marry though as kids are hopefully going to be on the cards soon and I want to be married beforehand.
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