friend ship or is it more ...

[woman42]

my DH has a hobbie and does with our DC , iv noticed over last few months a certain woman paying my DH attention on FB , her and her DC do same hobby to , i went along some moths ago saw them all and she was there clocked me as i did her in the distance , i felt uneasy as was a direct stare at me , but let it go , then came a post on DH FB thank ing him for looking after all her DC that day , then weekor so later more posts on his wall from her and tagging him in alot of posts with comments between them both , i confronted him asking about is , he said she was just friendly with everyone .
so iv left it , but again she has recently posted more on DH page tagging him on a fantastic day with my DH and great company and my DC and taken pics of my DC and put them up ....

am i over reacting ???

[Horsemad]

Well I wouldn't be happy with her posting pics of my DC on Facebook, so would probably have a word about that

She may be just friendly, or she may have designs on your DH. What's your gut feeling? Does she put up pics of the other people who do the hobby?

[FolkGirl]

Why do some women do this?

Your husband's reaction is more important than her motivation, to be honest. If she has a crush on him, he should be managing it. These things are natural and only a problem when they are encouraged rather than quashed.

[woman42]

she has tagged other people sometimes but a few are just on my DH wall ,

,my gut is that she likes him , he has said to me in past shes flirty with everyone , but said hes not intrested at all , that was few months back , i checked his phone then and her name wasn't in his contacts ...but i checked last week and it now is ....

[Horsemad]

Keep (quietly) watching and waiting then OP. Realistically, if he's going to cheat, he will. Hopefully he will 'manage' their friendship correctly, but I'd be keeping an eye on things...

[woman42]

thanks Hmad , what does OP mean ?

[Horsemad]

OP = Original Poster ie you.

[woman42]

lol ok thanks , i shall be thank you

[PamDooveOrangeJoof]

Why would he need her number? Have you asked why he has her number in his phone!

[woman42]

no , but prob to do with the hobby ....

[woman42]

havent asked doesnt know iv checked

[Horsemad]

I wouldn't let him know you are aware he has her number in his phone. Play your cards close to your chest and watch and wait...

[inlectorecumbit]

change her number for yours in his phone and see what happens

[Horsemad]

Ha! Now that could be interesting!!

[dadwood]

Hi OP I don't think I would change numbers in his phone book! He might find out and at least 3 things will happen:

He'll think of you as jealous and controlling.
He may never quite trust you again.
He'll cover his tracks much better if he starts to mess around.

And it's not a nice thing to do to!

If you really have to snoop invasively, (which I would not do myself) make sure you can't be caught!