This is about my mother who I have posted a bit about before. I think she has narrassistic traits and is certainly " difficult".
I had a baby four weeks ago and I also have a DD who is almost three. My mum has been very helpful and had been here most days helping with the children and housework.
However, she has been generally quite critical. A few days ago my DD was eating some sweets. My husband jokingly tried to take one from her and she wouldn't give him one. My mum then asked for one and she wouldn't give one. My husband and I did tell her off but didn't make a big deal of it.
My mum went home half an hour later, clearly in a very bad mood and cancelled coming the next day as previously arranged. I thought this was because she had had some bad news a few days before and was feeling out of sorts.
However, today she took my husband aside and told him she was "extremely hurt" by DD's behaviour. My husband tried to brush it off and said how young dd is. My mum was still really annoyed.
I have a troubled relationship with my mum, so I find it hard to know what is normal.
Is this normal behaviour and if not, how would people suggest I tackle it? If at all.
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mermaid101 · 22/08/2014 16:31
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