Hi
I have a friend with MS who is no longer mobile, dependant on carers and has been stuck in one inaccessible room of the house she had shared with her now Ex for 30+ years. He has always been somewhat emotionally abusive, belittling her, etc, and hasn't got better now she's ill and they've separated.
They own the house they have lived in here in SE London that she is still living in, along with 2 down in Hampshire that he's mostly living in, and for some reason, before I knew her, he talked her into signing them all into his name only, supposedly 'for tax reasons'!
He has now told her she has to be out by the end of september, and thankfully we've found an accessible flat she can rent from a HA, although it needs work so she won't be moving by his deadline, but the knowledge that she will be gone soon seems to have shut him up on that front for now, but he is saying that all the properties are his alone as he paid all the mortgages, and the paperwork seems to back that up! Its not true as she has always worked until ill health, and paid into the house / maintenance / bills etc etc. They aren't married, so its not as simple as divorce and demand her fair share, so wondered if anyone had been in a similar situation and could tell us what her rights might be / what sort of agreement we need to apply for / what to instruct the solicitor to do?
I'm also ill with ME and fibromyalgea and finding it rather a strain to try and help her out when I know nothing about any of this, so any support / knowledge shared would be very gratefully received?
Thanks
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friend with MS being treated badly by ExP, need some advice re house sale etc
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Adarajames · 21/08/2014 20:37
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