Met a guy online, went out for a month, all going well, he was keen, I was keen, then he ended it, saying he wasn't 'feeling it'. I was upset, he ticked a lot of my boxes.
After a week I messaged him, saying fancy a drink as friends. He immediately replied, yes, he was glad I'd made the first move, he'd been thinking about me all week, but he didn't want to get back together.
To cut a long story short we've seen each other 4 times in the last week, a sort of heart to heart, a walk, a meal, pub, music, he's been to mine, all cosy..cat on his lap, chatting about kids, etc. And of course we've slept together again.
He is very complimentary, affectionate responsive, but he is still on dating site a lot, as am I, but I don't want to be, iyswim.
I know he really likes me, but he is looking for thuderbolt love, which he doesn't feel with me. Imo this is slightly unrealistic, and I'd love to get back with him.
He's giving me lots of mixed messages, he knows how I feel. My best male friend says don't be available, either he's with you or he's not, I know I need to do this, it's so hard, I really like him, I don't want to not see him. It's awful seeing him online looking for other women and putting better photos up all the time!
Talk some sense into me please. I need to get him out of my system as I think his mind is made up.
It would help if there was anyone online I could move on with, but there just isn't atm.
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He was my bf, now in a weird place..I need talking to.
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greensandblues · 09/08/2014 13:58
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