I am gutted that after 16 months of couples counselling dh is not going to change.
He is controlling, jealous, sulky, emotionally abusive and unfortunately I love him. But, I don't want to live my life on this constant rollercoaster anymore. His nit picking, negativity is wearing me down.
The counselling has been invaluable in that it has enabled me to gather strength.
I have suffered with horrendous anxiety for three years and only the last 10 months have been well enough to get a job.
Our DS are both adults.
I am planning on seeing a solicitor now. I'm scared. I still love him. Can anyone offer me advice? How will I get through this ? How will I tell him?
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16 months of relate - time to face the truth - marriage of 24 years is over
Funnyfishface · 04/08/2014 00:40
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