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is this bad..

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ROUNDandROUNDINCIRCILESMORETHA · 29/07/2014 22:58

that dh away for the week and I am actually enjoying it ;-)
anyone else feel that way when their dh's away - feel awful but it's nice just to be able to relax and not worry about someone else and what mood they are going to be in!

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SarcyMare · 29/07/2014 23:01

Absolutely love it. My own space, own schedule

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ROUNDandROUNDINCIRCILESMORETHA · 29/07/2014 23:03

and whatever on the tv ;-)

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Bruins · 29/07/2014 23:03

It's not bad, it's great.

Would it be so good though if it was permanent? If the answer is yes, you have a problem.

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HappyJustToBe · 29/07/2014 23:05

I enjoy not having to find something we both like for dinner but when DH is away the washing fairy leaves too and I have to make sure I've got clean gym stuff.

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MairzyDoats · 29/07/2014 23:08

Oh mine too! And it's lovely, we had cheese toasties for tea, I can be online whenever I like (I do anyway, but now I feel no guilt) and the whole bed is MINE! :D

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ROUNDandROUNDINCIRCILESMORETHA · 29/07/2014 23:08

No I wouldn't see this as permanent - it's just nice though to have my own time for a bit, and the hope the time apart will help him appreciate me more and what I do for him. it's easy to take each other for granted isn't it.

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kaykayblue · 29/07/2014 23:17

I really love it for one or two nights, but after that I start just feeling sad.

The first night is always awesome though!

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BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted · 29/07/2014 23:29

If I was in a relationship where I worried about what mood they are going to be in, I'd know it was the wrong relationship with the wrong partner. The hell with that!

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SarcyMare · 29/07/2014 23:30

Oh the whole bed is just too much goodness

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singaporefling · 29/07/2014 23:30

Love my DH... Really!! But LOVE the bed/bathroom/kitchen etc to myself - not having to think about anyone else for a while!

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HappyGirlNow · 29/07/2014 23:50

Why do you have to worry what mood he's in???

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ROUNDandROUNDINCIRCILESMORETHA · 30/07/2014 00:23

things have been a bit crap recently. I think we are slowly coming out of it though and he is starting to accept how he has behaved and needs to do something about his low mood- I have put posts on here before so won't go into it now. but yes, it has been a bit wonder what mood he will be in at the weekend. :/

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Jan45 · 30/07/2014 12:50

Not a good way to be wondering if the person you live with is going to be in a good mood or not...perhaps it's an indication that you would actually be happier if he stayed away permanently.

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toyoungtodie · 30/07/2014 16:51

I like it for while. I can sleep in the middle of the bed and watch the TV as I am awake at two a.m as I am frightened on the first night. Big house, remote location, think Scary Movie etc. I can also munch on crisps and stuff that even I think I shouldn't be eating. However after a couple of days I want him back and have fantasises about his beautiful body.

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ROUNDandROUNDINCIRCILESMORETHA · 30/07/2014 22:39

:-)

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