I have NC for this as I dont want my friend to know I am posting this on her behalf
She is in a very abusive relationship, he's controlling she's not allowed friends and its got so bad that he wont let her have a lock on the toilet
She's just rung me petrified, hes just destroyed the shopping with a pair of scissors she's hiding upstairs with her dog and he's gone out
She's ringing me to say that she would never commit suicide she just wants me to know that and if she dials my number but doesn't talk Im to call the police for her
I'm of a mind to do it now except for the fact that he hurt her badly last year and her friend called the police but they let him off with a caution
Unfortunately the legal position is that its his house too and he was allowed to return to the property
Don't know what to do now i've tried to give her womens aid number but she is frightened to write anything down in case he finds it
Ive just about convinced her to keep her mobile tucked under the edge of the bed so she can get to it, he insists on it being turned off at night and she isnt allowed a phone in the bedroom
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jellybellybo · 25/07/2014 22:10
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