So, briefly ex was v physically and emotionally abusive had been together nearly 20 years. Relationship ended in oct last year when he moved out. He hooked up with new woman v quickly. We were about to start mediation but I wasnt comfortable as I think its not recommended where there is abuse.
Today he tells me the news and I just feel numb. I mean surely u sort out one divorce and arrangements for that family before creating another.
Am really worried about implications for my kids as he pays bare minimum atm anyway
I think I have to file for divorce stating the violence and adultery
But how can I cope on an emotional level. Its so hard as he was awful to me but potentially great with her and she will get the best side of him I never had.
Plus I worry about always being alone and never finding anyone esp with two little kids.
Why shd he get chance of happiness aftet all the awful things he did to me and I am stuck as a single parent struggling and alone
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ex's new girlfriend pregnant and we aren't even divorced yet. struggling to cope
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