Got out of a bad 2 and a half year relationship about 6 weeks ago(were both women). There were two little boys involved ages 4 and 8…we all lived together for the last year. Because it ended over the phone I never got to say goodbye to them.
I think about them so much and feel completely devastated over them 100 times more than my exDP. I love them like they were my own, bathed, cuddled, put them to bed, etc…I relished every second of it and they sometimes mistakenly called me mum…they were just the best thing that had happened to me.
I was walking in town and saw my exP and her youngest at a cashpoint, my stomach dropped when I saw him. I just wanted to run up to him but I walked as fast as I could so they wouldn't see me. Ive been crying ever since. I guess my question is am I wrong to feel this way over two children who weren't mine? Surely this isn't normal??
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candyce83 · 13/07/2014 08:38
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