I've been separated from my H for almost a year following the discovery of yet another affair.
Since then he swings between being really nasty and begging me back. He's also bordering on obsessive about me moving on, constantly asking me if I'm seeing anyone, asking if I pulled on nights out, accusing me of blocking him on Facebook to cover up my new relationship, etc.
I've always told him that I have no interest in meeting anyone else which up until recently was true. However, I have since slept with another man and 'pulled' as he puts it on nights out as well as considering dating. Should I just tell him the truth so he stops asking and can deal with it?
I think he will be very hurt and not to mention angry at me which I'd like to avoid for obvious reasons. Not that he ever did me the courtesy of being upfront about his antics mind . I'm kind of hoping he manages to move on soon (if he hasn't already) which will pave the way for me doing the same.
Anyone got any advice on how I should handle this please?
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Should I just tell him?
SingleSock · 11/07/2014 21:18
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