So, H and I are separating. We have been together almost 20 years, married for 5. We have a house, owned with no mortgage.
I went to see solicitor this week, and really don't want to go the route of buying H out of the house, and I wouldn't want for him to have to do that either.
Dd is 9, and loves the house and having her friends just doors away. Her well being is really important to both of us.
I am not interested in what I can get out of the divorce financially, as long as dd is provided for by us both and we can all be comfortable.
So, what I am thinking of suggesting to H is that he stays in the house, as to be fair he has done so much work to it, and also given his age it is unfair to expect him to start again, new house, mortgage etc.
I would expect a s from him to enable me to move, £30000 for example.
What do others think to this? Am I being a fool walking away from more money, or is it more important to keep things as amicable as possible for dd and both h and I?
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