Do you think it is a good idea to forgive an EX who did bad things?
I am giving him the benefit of the doubt, in the hope that with his mental health diagnosis at the time and being around the person he was/is and given the informaiton he was at the time, he genuinely believed what he was told. As he was convinced I was someone I am not, he felt he had a reason to be so dreadful towards me.
I have named changed for this.
The story is a long complicated one.
Basically, I think I am able to forgive him. I think the balance of his mind was not as it should have been, when he did things. I have no idea how his mental health is now. I am not sure how he is going to cope with the informaiton he is going to be given. I have been his scapegoat for a long time now. He is going to be presented with information to show he and the person who helped him see things differently were wrong.
I am not sure if it will cause all hell to break loose in his life or if he will go after me again.
I have to get this out, regardless, for complicated reasons.
How should I present this to him?
He will not be with the person when he finds out properly.
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What do you do in this situation?
AgathaAndTheDog · 28/06/2014 20:39
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