I separated six months ago from my Husband. Together 14 years. 2DDs. I left because of long history of him being unsupportive and uncaring, financially controlling and generally I was lonely and unhappy. We lived separate lives in the same house and I was relieved to get out of the miserable situation I was in.
Since then, I've have been on dates and met other people. Yesterday I found out he has been dating and I feel a bit heartbroken TBH. I'm annoyed that he has our 2DDs on his three profile photos. I've asked him to remove the photos of the kids.
I feel like I've been quite strong through the whole situation but cried a lot today and felt like I was unable to stop at one point.
The emotion I felt shocked me and I was annoyed that I was so bothered by the whole thing. It feels like the attention and nice words I was so desperate for, and begged for for years and never got, are now being spent on somebody else.... From a man who has never been able to show such emotion. He never bothered much with the kids or me for almost a decade and now he's like a male version of Mary Poppins.
I feel so upset. He's away for the weekend. The kids are with me. I'm awake and crying. What the hell is wrong with me?
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Ships99 · 28/06/2014 04:12
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