Been with my DH since we were young, been married 6 years. 2 young DC aged 3 and 1. Youngest not a good sleeper and I'm very tired so don't know of that is clouding my judgement!
Have never had any reason to doubt DH. He's wonderful, works hard in a stressful job, has never lied before (that I know of anyway). In the last month at work he has been doing crazy, crazy hours. I'm talking working ten hours, home for a few and then back in for another ten. This after working crazy hours all week. At the time I was complaining to him that work hadn't said whether they were going to give him time back or double time money. He said they had told him they were going to pay double time.
Payday is here and I checked account to find he has been paid normal amount. Mentioned it to him so he could sort it at work. He then tell me they haven't decided of they're going to pay him back or give the time back (if anything!). I said I thought you said that they were going to pay you double. He said he just said that to "stop me stressing" :/. More like shut me up I bet...
Right crappy job/contract aside. Am I right to feel angry that he lied? I feel a bit floored TBH. I thought we were solid. I never, ever thought he would lie to me about anything. Now it makes me wonder if he has lied about anything else. sigh I really don't think he will have done. I'm overthinking this aren't i?
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Am I overthinking this? DH lied.
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Lalalablah · 27/06/2014 09:39
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