Inspired by another thread.
My dh cheated on me years ago in the most spectacular fashion-he had a threesome with two prostitutes and was caught/prosecuted. At the time we were going through a horrendous time due to bereavement and I was pretty much a zombie through the whole period.
I left breifly but returned as I was just in a fog. Both our families knew too.
My issue is that dh has never talked about it/shown remorse properly.He maintains that it was all a misunderstanding-that he thought he was a going to a party,blah,blah,blah,did'nt know they were prostitutes etc.
He has never explained to me what actually happened or really said sorry and if I bring it up then he either refuses to discuss it or tries to turn it back on me-I had a one night stand a couple of years ago with another woman.
Our families also never speak of it. Dh's family think he is fantastic and blamed it all on his drinking issues My family dislike dh immensely but are polite for my sake.
I feel so angry all the time and its is destroying me-I just can't move past this even though it was years ago. Yes we do have lots of problems in our marriage and yes I should have left and never went back. I am a fucking idiot.
Just wanted to vent really.
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To still be angry so many years later?
Musetta · 12/05/2014 16:46
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