I could really do with some mn wisdom please.
I've been with dh for almost 18 yrs. We have a 9 yr old dd.
Things have been going downhill for a while now.
He is really easily riled, an example, yesterday I was meeting dh,dd and mil for tea after work. Was running few minutes late and texted dh to let him know. When I arrived dh was really annoyed and I could see him from my car he was clearly being vocal with his annoyance.
Throughout the meal he didn't talk to me once. In fact he didn't talk to me until I brought it up about 10 pm last night after I had worked for another 2 hours.
I'm not in love with him, half the time I don't particularly like him even.
I know I can't carry on like this. But he idolises dd, and she does him. They have a lovely relationship and I don't know if I can bring myself to take the step that will mean that so much will change.
The other thing is he can be quite controlling and sometimes a bit short tempered. Dd can be challenging and he thinks his way is best
All thoughts welcome. Thanks.
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Advice needed please
wewillmendit · 10/05/2014 15:06
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