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Online dating. 2 great dates, no contact stopped

(3 Posts)
heyho1919 Fri 09-May-14 23:05:18

Having been doing online dating for over a year and meeting lots of people tthe majority of whom i've never wanted to see again, I finally met someone who i thought might be special. We've had 2 dates, he seemed very keen, arrnaged 3 third date and been daily contact mainy by text, a couple of calls too. He's not been on the dating site since ou second date. Last contact was a lovley conversation full of chat and laughs, talking about our upcoming date this weekend and he was full of ideas for thing we could do in the future. Since then no contact (he usually instigates). I sent a text early this evening and no reply - looks like he's changed his mind. Any thoughts?

knowledgeispower Fri 09-May-14 23:09:42

How long is it since your last date? When did the chat about the date this weekend take place.

angstridden2 Sat 10-May-14 14:15:59

Who can tell? I am beginning to wonder about OD (along with many of the female population I imagine). Recently I met a really nice guy on OD, went out for 6 months - he was the one who always initiated meetups, always very affectionate (I am quite reserved), spent time with his friends. Had a lovely weekend (I thought) mostly spent together. Then I'm dumped with NC since; literally out of the blue. WTF? Do these guys go on OD to play games? I'm 30 and beginning to wonder if there is a forever guy out there - it's just so draining.

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