He left me last Thursday .
I gave up work to be a SAHM but worked a few hours un contracted to keep my hand in on a weekend.
There is no chance of a reconciliation and I don't know what to do next.
My life has been trashed in a few days.
There is a possibility of gaining more hours but they are more than I'm going to be able to do and I might not even get them. So I won't be able claim tax credits unless I leave and get a job out side my career which I've just spent the last ten years working on and loving.
Dp expected me to claim housing benefit for this house but I won't be able to claim it as he is dd father. He begrudgingly said he would still pay the mortgage but I know he would prefer us to leave. If he does pay then he would def not be able to pay CS .
Ive no money for a deposit on a rented place.
He is not acknowledging the whole shower of shit I'm going to have to sort out. Just stands there saying ' I don't know what you want me to say'
I dont even know who this person is.
What now ? I feel like refusing to leave.
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Going to have to move out of dp house with our dd.
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Anywhichway · 03/05/2014 20:41
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