What next? Not been getting on for a while. Complete silence for two weeks now. Asked him if he is having an affair. He laughed at me. I don't know. Not sure I care. He's become very isolated. Hardly talking to the kids and just going to work and going to sleep. Eldest DCs have told him he's being grumpy. He moans at them. Youngest dd has asked him why he won't talk to anyone and he shouts at her. Final straw was when he disappeared all morning on his day off instead of spending time with youngest ds and then he come back with birthday presents for ds from himself. He knows I've spent a lot of £ on ds already and hasn't contributed at all. We have separate finances. He pays mortgage (I'm not on it) and he pays some other bills. I feed and clothe kids and pay water and phone bills plus my car. I can't afford to take on what he pays for so realistically I can't stay in this house but I don't know if I qualify for social housing help. I have no idea what to do next. I just know that I don't feel sad or angry or anything.
Any advice greatly appreciated.
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lifeisastruggle · 30/04/2014 15:51
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