So am I in the wrong here or is he an arse? ?
I asked him a question over the long weekend. It was about whether something was a danger to young DD- hot drink on the side. He said no. I then thought I could see steam coming from the cup so I asked again.
He snapped, bit my head off that I had a) asked again b) not checked myself c) not believed him.
I told him there was no need to talk to me in that way. He said he wouldnt have to if I actually listened to him. I said there is still no need to talk to me like that.
He flipped out, shouting and swearing (in front of young kids) that he is fed up with my telling him not to talk to me in a tone (he talks to me in a rude manner a lot IMO).
Slammed doors, threated to not talk to me at all if I didnt like it.
He hasnt spoken to me since this happened.
Am I at fault here for not trusting/ provoking? or is he just an arsehole.
I suppose that I basically called him out on the way he talks to me and he doesnt like it but I do feel that maybe it was my fault..
He has form on angry shouting and stone walling.
I find the silence absolutely hellish. I am on edge and feeling physically ill. I am dealin with this ono top of depression which is exacerbated by his mood issues. Things really arent great just now. :(
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AChickenNamedDirk · 23/04/2014 20:03
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