For the past 2 years i have been with a man. We met just after he had left his wife and daughters. He was living at his mothers.
2 years on we were happy. We had kept our relationship a secret for the sake of his and my children as they were still attending the same school and felt it better to take things slow with regards to them. Then our relationship got found out by his ex. She then ddecided to turn his daughters against him .... making them tell him they didnt love him and didnt want access to him anymore.
So much so that after 2 years he has gone back home - for the sake of the children.
He still says he loves me, is miserable as sin and keeps in touch when he can.
She however constantly checks his phone etc.
I miss him so much but feel i am just propping him up and making his life bearable.
Over the long weekend we had no contact as he was at home all day but as soon as tuesday morning came and he was at work the messages start again.
Am i just being used ?
I love and miss him so much and am utterly confused.
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am i just propping him up and helping his marriage stay together?
smileysarah1 · 23/04/2014 09:07
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