Does anyone else have a partner with a serious long term illness and if so has that affected your relationship for better or worse? How long did it take you to come to terms with it?
I am with my partner 20 yrs , married for almost 18, and nearly 5 yrs ago he was diagnosed with a serious long term illness which has had a big impact on our lives particularly financially. We are in a totally different position now than we thought we would be at this stage and its very hard at times. I find I almost resent him at times for it which is very unfair and I would never ever let him know that because I know its absolutely not his fault, does anyone else ever feel like this or am I just a horrible person :( . In other ways though its made our relationship stronger, I really admire the way he copes with it, he is very strong and never says why me, he just gets on with it . We do support and love each other but life just seems so stressful and a slog at times.
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Partner with a long term illness?
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goodtimesinbontemps · 23/04/2014 05:28
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