NC for this as it's embarrassing / personal.
New BF. He's great. Together a few weeks only. He's attentive and clearly turned on by me, but he wants to hold off full sex until he feels deeper emotions, but we "do stuff".
So anyway, "sex moments" can be a bit fumbly and I feel a bit awkward. He seems very full on but sort of holds back from full intercourse. He emailed me today and said he had to relieve himself at home and it was so frustrating. I sent a very sweet reply saying I missed him and wanted to see him tonight and added on the end "as for the rest it's your fault for being frigid".
I said this as a joke, but he sent an absolutely awful reply which said:
Hmmm, with a response like that, reckon I'll stay home tonight.
Not sure how you can think that calling someone 'frigid' is exactly going to help matters but, tbh, I don't actually recall you doing that much to help things anyway. Tends to be the case that you do a little then just try and sit on me regardless.
Not arguing. Think this one's best left well alone
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AIMU or was this a nasty reply to a (perhaps insensitive) joke? Can someone tell me how they would interpret this?
I feel really pissed off, but also not sure if I maybe touched a sore spot. That said his reply seemed like a 5 year old child and it was quite spiteful.
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Is it just me or is this email nasty?
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