I have been friends with L for near on 20 years. For much of the last ten years I have lived the other end of the country but have made the effort to visit L when I have been back home visiting family. In all the time I lived down South we regularly spoke on the phone.
Eighteen months ago I moved back closer to home albeit 50 miles away and still we have met up regularly and speak frequently on the phone.
Just after I moved back L told me that she and her P had made a date for the wedding. She told me all the details and every time we spoke about it she checked that I would be coming.
The wedding is in a couple of months time and I have received an invitation but to the evening do only. I do not use fb but have been told that there is lots on there about her forthcoming hen do, which I have also not been invited to.
I am supposed to meet L next week for lunch but I am seriously thinking of cancelling. I am quite hurt and upset by it all, but I am also furious that the invitation to the evening reception asks for money to be donated instead of presents.
How would you handle this?
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Not as good a friendship as I thought??
eveninginviteonly · 17/04/2014 19:15
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