Any lawyers or other experienced people know whether it's normal/appropriate for a solicitor to recommend agreeing contact arrangements outside of court but legally binding, in a case where
- there was domestic violence (physical & emotional) towards the child's mother during the relationship
- there has been continued harassment including death threats since the end of relationship
- child's father has attempted to take the child from nursery (unauthorised, police were called)
My friend is in this situation and I'm not sure she's had good advice. I'm not sure there should be any contact under these circumstances and my friend is uneasy about settling it outside court.
Police say she needs more evidence before she can get a non molestation order.
I'm worried he'll use contact arrangements to continue to try to control her, disrupt her life, or worse (given death threats & attempted abduction).
Any info/advice I can pass on?