I met a man about six weeks ago, and things had all the hallmarks of going really well. We got on so well. On all our dates, we would talk non-stop for hours. There was lots of texting and on the last couple of dates, lots of sex.
He works on the other side of the country much of the time but last week told me he'd rearranged his work schedule so he'd be around more at the weekends in the next few months, so he could spend more time with me.
Anyway, on Saturday we arranged to go somewhere nice late afternoon and then we were going back to his place to watch DVDs and I was going to stay over.
We went out, had pizza and ice cream and went back to his and cracked open wine. The combination must have been potent because suddenly I got really bad stomach gripes and had to dash to his toilet and had diarrhoea. Embarrassing! I was mortified. His flat is small, it was obvious something was going on. I had to explain, I'd had a stomach upset and I was embarrassed. He was not very sympathetic at all. He said something along the lines of "it's embarrassing yes, but not the end of the world I suppose. Let's just go to the shop."
I was in two minds of whether to just go home, I should have done but I didn't. I thought it was forgotten about. Everything quickly got back to normal.
We went to bed later, still talking and laughing a lot. Had sex. In the morning I woke up really early (as always) and he was still sound asleep. After about an hour, I was starting to get fidgety so I got dressed to go, as I didn't want to keep disturbing him. I needed to pick up my daughter a little later anyway. I gave him a kiss goodbye and told him I was going, but he seemed really put out I was going. His reaction was quite "oh, right"
I text him as usual yesterday but only got one short, curt message back. Which is completely the opposite of how we have been the last couple of weeks. So I text him last night, asking if he was OK. He's told me a couple of times he can be grumpy and moody, so I wanted to get it out in the open rather then waiting for a grown man to get over a sulk.
But I've received no reply. What does this sound like? He's changed his mind? He's in a grump? Was my embarrassing incident a deal breaker? should I not have gone in the morning?
I'm not going to text again, I'm just confused
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