I posted before about the breakdown of my marriage (sorry don't know how to link from phone).
Anyways, me and XH have been talking loads, very amicable, friendly and honest. We agree we'll always be friends whatever the future holds as neither of us has any bad feelings of each other.
XH has new partner of 2 months (been seeing her twice a week). Since I got back in contact with him she has been sending in excess of 30 texts every day telling him what a bitch I am, what my character is, how I'll never change, what her friends say about me, along with lots of 'I love you' messages.
He has said she has every right to be angry at me. Am I being a bit blonde in thinking that as he's been honest with her about his failings as well as mine, she really shouldn't be doing this and he should tell her to stop with the character assassination??? He has said that she is doing his head in and that he doesn't believe everything she is saying but that she is only trying to protect him.
As the breakup was mutual I am struggling to understand this as I know if I had a new partner I wouldn't accept any down putting of XH.
Am I missing a something???
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Is it ok for XH new partner to excessively slag me off??
Lozislovely · 24/02/2014 21:03
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