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Found an escort's number

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KatieZA23 Thu 20-Feb-14 00:42:45

Hello all - i'm usually a lurker, but decided to finally post for all of your helpful opinions smile

I'm in a long-term relationship with a great deal of trust. I rarely question anything my partner does when we are apart, as I fully trust him. We are both highly independent, live separately and have our own lives.

Mixed in amongst his receipts, I found a phone number and girls' name scrawled on a piece of cash register receipt paper. So I googled it, and to my surprise, it came up with an escort's page here in my city.

The escort in question is a similar age to him (more similar than mine to him), and it doesn't go to a vague page of porn - the phone number leads to a particular escorts site (and links to her same page on a number of different prostitutation sites).

My question is: how would you go about bringing this up with my partner? Should I ask point blank, but i'm concerned he will simply deny.

He is in a sales job where he is constantly collecting phone numbers for people and calling them later to discuss business opportunities, so there is the chance it could be yet another one of those phone numbers. But I guess I figured that if she was interested in business opportunities unrelated to being a prostitute, she would have given him her real number, not one that goes directly to a answer machine.

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

MerryBuddha Fri 21-Feb-14 09:20:46

I agree with Hellsbells

Except for the piece of paper which looks like it hasn't been re looked at. There is nothing to suggest he is cheating. You say you trust him. Then trust him!! Ask him about it. I bet you can gauge what's or isn't going on by his reply/behaviour.

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