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Online porn in suspicious circumstances

(18 Posts)
jadorecakesnbiscuits Wed 19-Feb-14 20:13:14

My DP is out atleast 4 nights a week keeping various hobbies and visiting his disabled friend, when he is at home he sits on his computer ALOT doing uni work, i feel like he is avoiding me.

Now he is secrative about his money even though we have a baby together, after feeling too suspicious and like something was a miss, i did what we have all done yet all seem to scorn eachother for doing, had a good old root through his phone. usually he clears his browsing history but for the past 3 weeks on a tuesday night when he has been saying he his at his disabled friends he has been watching porn on his phone, he hasnt been coming home for a sneaky wank because im here and our bathroom door fell off over a month ago grin i hate feeling like im breathing down his neck and i havent brought it up with him as i would be ashamed to admit to snooping but where the heck is he wanking?

Apocalypto Wed 19-Feb-14 20:47:32

I have no advice except to say Jesus H Christ on a bike....

Fairenuff Wed 19-Feb-14 20:56:31

In the shower?

ToddlerHoover Wed 19-Feb-14 20:59:29

Oh I remember you. He's the one having an affair with his disabled male friend, amirite?

Logg1e Wed 19-Feb-14 21:01:33

Why do you think he's not watching porn with his friend? Sorry, his disabled friend.

fluffyraggies Wed 19-Feb-14 21:07:08

In the car?

Would he not watch porn while sat at a friends house?

gildedcage Wed 19-Feb-14 21:11:13

what annoys you most, the porn or not knowing where he's wanking. It sounds like there are bigger issues I.e he avoids you and is secretive.

Apocalypto Wed 19-Feb-14 21:13:44

Depending on how disabled the friend is he could be standing behind him and wanking there.

fiftyandfab Wed 19-Feb-14 21:17:38

May I ask how the bathroom door fell off, and why it's still off?

Fairenuff Wed 19-Feb-14 21:20:00

Is it relevant that the friend is disabled? I feel like I am missing something here confused

Logg1e Wed 19-Feb-14 21:20:39

You mean the DISABLED friend, fairenuff?

AnyFuckerHQ Wed 19-Feb-14 21:22:51

is there some subtext I am not aware of here ? grin

should I ignore my own rather disturbing one ?

fiftyandfab Wed 19-Feb-14 21:23:54

DO share your own disturbing one AF!

Fairenuff Wed 19-Feb-14 21:24:47

Ah c'mon, let me in

< stamps foot >

forumdonkey Wed 19-Feb-14 21:26:24

Haven't you had previous threads regarding your DP and his hobbies and spending time with his friend OP?

Back2Two Wed 19-Feb-14 21:28:30

Never have a good old root whilst going through someone's phone.
You might end up with an injury. Or disabled even.

AnyFuckerHQ Wed 19-Feb-14 21:29:45

if I did that, FAF, I would have to kill you afterwards smile

fiftyandfab Wed 19-Feb-14 21:36:59

hahahah AF....you do make me smile!! wink

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