We are both 38, I am divorced with two dc's 7 and 18. He has never been married. We have been together 2.5 years. He stays 4-5 days at mine including every weekend. Helps with the school run and goes on holiday with us.
The problem is, he refused to move in with me twice last year, saying he likes things as they are. I buying a new house and moving inin April. I would love him to move in with me but having been rejected twice, I don't intend to ask.
Anyway this last week, I said to him that I would like us to acquire something as a couple. Something that belonged to us and we both decided upon, she asked what that something would be and I said, I would like us to buy a really nice bed for the new house. I expected him to be all sensible and say we both have beds,,. Anyway he agreed to it and we have spent this weekend visiting furniture shops and agreeing on a budget.
He bought me some lovely flowers and cooked be a 7 course dinner on Friday night, to was so nice so I said to him that I have decided I want to be with him until we grow old so he should by me a diamond or Saphire. I told him we could go to hatton garden in London and get one designed for us. I asked him when would be a good weekend to do this, he said anytime. So I suggested weekend after next. He agreed to come.
Could it be he is changing his mind about living together? Did anyone have a partner resisting living together or marriage? Did you all get a grand romantic proposal? Any advice for me?
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Good this be progress in the right direction.
Lifeisforlivingkatie · 16/02/2014 19:36
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