So, relationship breaks down after nearly 6 years together last December.
Jointly own the house (but I have a large sum invested that he can't touch) we've lived here for 5 years in April. me and my DC moved 11 miles (sold my house) so that we could have a fresh start, larger house as his DD visited 3 weekends out of 4 at the time and he wanted rooms for his girls. He moved 30 or so miles to live with me. Large mortgage that he is still paying half towards.
He met someone 3 weeks after our split and he moved out of the house last week - he's renting somewhere 40 miles away, close to work. I have a feeling his new victim and child have moved in with him.
He has left a load of stuff here (currently piled up in the garage). I have emailed him asking him if he's coming for it, or not! he hasn't even got the decency to reply.
He left the areas he was living in in a disgusting state. The bathroom hadn't been cleaned, he took his TV off the wall leaving screws and holes. There was stuff everywhere. He just packed up and ran!
I know he has no interest in this house now but it is further proof that he is truly a despicable person. He has no morals. He talks about respect and decency, he has none for me or this house. He has walked away and left me to deal with it all - I am so bloody angry. I honestly thought he was a good, kind, decent man! He isn't!
I'm trying desperately to sell this house. I only moved here because of him. My mum and dad have been so good, they have helped me sort rooms out, redecorate and make it more appealing.
Just needed to vent!
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So, so angry that he's left me to deal with all the house shit...
louby44 · 16/02/2014 17:11
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