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I did something shit

(5 Posts)
amiok Sun 09-Feb-14 22:00:14

Friend, I and friend's DP all met at the same time around a year ago (we are all mid-20s). At the time when they were just getting it together I tried it on with him. I don't know why, I was going through a shit time but that's no excuse. I have apologised to her, although she has every right to tell me to fuck off. I don't know what to do. I can't undo it, I feel awful and so ashamed/angry with myself.

jayho Sun 09-Feb-14 22:07:34

Why is this an issue now?

Casmama Sun 09-Feb-14 22:10:15

Have you just apologised now and are waiting for her reaction?

CogitoErgoSometimes Sun 09-Feb-14 22:11:51

Oh stop with the self-pity. You've apologised, realised you made a mistake and beating yourself up is just self-indulgent. All you can ever do with bad experiences is learn from them.

fideline Mon 10-Feb-14 00:37:34

So she didn't know until you apologised (very) recently? Is that right?

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