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I did something shit

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amiok · 09/02/2014 22:00

Friend, I and friend's DP all met at the same time around a year ago (we are all mid-20s). At the time when they were just getting it together I tried it on with him. I don't know why, I was going through a shit time but that's no excuse. I have apologised to her, although she has every right to tell me to fuck off. I don't know what to do. I can't undo it, I feel awful and so ashamed/angry with myself.

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jayho · 09/02/2014 22:07

Why is this an issue now?

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Casmama · 09/02/2014 22:10

Have you just apologised now and are waiting for her reaction?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 09/02/2014 22:11

Oh stop with the self-pity. You've apologised, realised you made a mistake and beating yourself up is just self-indulgent. All you can ever do with bad experiences is learn from them.

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fideline · 10/02/2014 00:37

So she didn't know until you apologised (very) recently? Is that right?

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