Argh, I'm at the end of my rope with my dp. It's not one huge thing is just his general lack of consideration and effort with everything, me and the kids.
I'm a SAHM he's got a stressful job he hates, so every night without fail he comes in in a foul mood and rants for at least half hour, is moody with the kids, and doesn't ever play with them. He never asks how my day was, even when I tell him I've had a rough day he either ignores me completely or just says 'yeah' then carries on.
Getting him to do ANYTHING with us at the weekend is like pulling teeth, he's normally glued to his phone or out.
He's never affectionate anymore, unless he wants sex, he used to be,I think he's fallen out of love with me :( I've put on quite a bit of weight since I had our dd 2 years ago, and my confidence has never been so low.
So today I'm going to sit him down and tackle all of this, maybe even suggest a trial separation,I love him but can't live like this anymore.
Any advice on how to word all this would be really appreciated,I feel so sad and alone.
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Need advice on what to say in today's inevitable 'talk'
EndOfRopesville · 09/02/2014 08:26
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