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I need someone to talk too

(33 Posts)
Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:10:40

I just need someone to be there to talk to. I know its pathetic

pennygallops Fri 07-Feb-14 00:13:20

Not pathetic at all. Is there something on your mind?

JanetSnakehole Fri 07-Feb-14 00:14:13

I'm here

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:16:09

Theres so many things on my mind. I feel helpless i dont know what to do for the best .

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:17:05

Everything is fucked up in my life

WallyBantersJunkBox Fri 07-Feb-14 00:21:14

Try writing it all down. I'm awake. smile

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:22:26

I'm here too. Do you want to tell us what's wrong?

WallyBantersJunkBox Fri 07-Feb-14 00:23:11

brew Loggins

JanetSnakehole Fri 07-Feb-14 00:24:29

Can you tell s what's wrong?

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:25:42

Im going to make myself sick . That helps me

JanetSnakehole Fri 07-Feb-14 00:26:51

Please don't. Talk to us.

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:27:18

Pesca, talk to us instead for a bit eh?

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:29:10

I have to iv eaten and iv ruined my diet. I know ill feel better if i let it out.

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:30:28

The diet can have a 10 minute break while you talk to us. Is the diet the reason you are upset?

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:33:30

No its not the diet. Its my life my husband, iv not had anything go eat all week and i now feel sick , because iv eaten food.

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:35:21

It's not the food making you sick sweetie. It's probably stress, you need food to be able to think straight and give you strength, honestly

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:36:45

Can you tell us what has happened?

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:41:23

Cheers for the tea Wally.
Pesca, are you there?

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:46:45

Im here. Iv just made myself sick. I know its wrong but i feel soo much better .

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 00:51:24

That's not a great way to make yourself feel better but I guess you know that already.
Do you think you could make a cup of tea with a little sugar in it to sip?

lollydollydrop Fri 07-Feb-14 00:54:17

Hi Pesca, I'm sorry to hear you felt you needed to do that. I sympathise. I wonder whether you have come to the Relationships board because you wish to talk about a troubling relationship that is distressing you, and the purging was just your way of coping with overwhelming feelings?

Pesca Fri 07-Feb-14 00:55:57

Its a release for me. I only do it once every 10 days or so.

lollydollydrop Fri 07-Feb-14 00:56:11

Rehydrating is an excellent idea Loggins. Pesca you should get some fluid back inside you. Do you often struggle with this?

lollydollydrop Fri 07-Feb-14 00:59:15

I understand, although it is not a healthy way to obtain that release and you could achieve the same effects through for example writing down your feelings, going for a drive, punching a pillow, talking to a friend, exercising smile

What did you need release from?

Loggins Fri 07-Feb-14 01:00:25

Glass of water if you don't fancy tea? Go get something then come back ok

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