...I'm going to.
Children are all at MIL's this week, which is great, even though I know she only does it to be able to see the children on her terms without my influence.
But:
We've just successfully potty-trained dd2 (2.8) who is not the most (ahem) naturally co-operative child. As long as she's put on the potty every couple of hours she's pretty reliable, and can hold on eg. for the duration of a 2-hour car journey. But one little accident at MIL's, and she's put her back into nappies (okay, trainer pants, but the same thing). Grrrr.
And I'd just rather laboriously rearranged her sleep patterns to get her used to doing without a daytime sleep so we can get her evenings back and, guess what! MIL has been letting her have a 2-hour kip at lunchtime. Dd1 informs me she did try to tell MIL to keep to our routines, but MIL announced it was her house and she was going to do it her way.
Plus she's apparently (dd1 is my loyal mole!) taken them all to Asda and spent a fortune on clothes that will live at MIL's house and thus be worn for one week per year. I'm probably being paranoid, but I do find the fact that she keeps a whole parallel wardrobe for them at her house a bit weird -- as if she needs to make them over in her own image, somehow. It particularly p*sses me off when we've just had to shell out a fortune for dd1's new secondary school uniform, and I'm wondering where the money for the next round of school shoes is going to come from.
I know, I know, it's her money and she can do what she likes with it. I just hate the slightly freaky controllingness of it, and the waste, when there are so many things we do actually need.
Silly witch.
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frogs · 02/08/2006 19:22
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