I ended relationship, it was becoming controlling, he pinned me to bed and pushed me on stairs.. Met him after separated from exh. He was everything exh wasn't.. Outgoing, good looking, charming... But he constantly put pressure on to move in etc, I wasn't ready and then the possessiveness started.. I can't get over him, how can I love someone who could do that to me? Be emotionally abusive too.. It was 'fairy tale' to begin with.. He threw stuff at me and told me never to contact him again, when I couldn't commit ... So I haven't..Feel like I'm pining over him, but why? Think about him all the time.. Feel like I should be over him.. Also lost baby to him.. 'Relationship' 2.5 yrs ended nov 13, surely I should be further along by now?
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