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Why does he deny the patently obvious??

(204 Posts)
Aloneandnowwhat Sun 05-Jan-14 19:38:26

He's been caught out cheating by me reading the texts, still denies it ever happened. Just found tweets to some random girl commenting on her good looks, again denied it was him.
Does he think I'm that stupid? And why cheat if you don't want to leave?
Sorry, more of a rant than anything else.

cjel Mon 13-Jan-14 21:53:07

I think thats just why you need contact order. You will know when ans where you will have to see him and won't have to have contact for any other reason.
Stop offering to meet him he will step up the bad behaviour trying to make you feel bad and it will wear you out. Take advice from thepolice, they have seen it all before and know what they are talking about.xx

Aloneandnowwhat Mon 13-Jan-14 22:26:25

They did ring me back and I asked them if I should still allow contact. The policewoman said it was a good idea to use a playgroup as a meeting place. Maybe tomorrow is too soon.

SingleAndLovingIt Mon 13-Jan-14 23:00:47

Maybe refuse to meet him with kids again until he respects your boundaries and leaves you alone? Reward the good behaviour?

cjel Mon 13-Jan-14 23:18:43

Playgroup is a good place but although its tempting to reward good behaviour(And I agree) it may be seen as provocative f he doesn't think hes behaved badly?x

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