I have been doing some KIT days at work before I go back in Feb after maternity leave. Dh has had 2 weeks off work over Xmas and has been looking after Ds while I worked (quite reluctantly may I add). I am supposed to be at work tomorrow. He has now decided he doesn't want to look after Ds and is currently drinking. Just spoke to him and his exact words were "don't go dumping him in the bed next to me in the morning."
Since Ds was born I am looking at things in a different light, I fear I may be in an EA marriage. He tries to make me feel guilty by saying he doesn't get much time off work, he has looked after Ds all week, he wants to enjoy his last weekend off without having to look after Ds. But I don't get ANY "time off"! If I am not looking after Ds I am at work. I mentioned possibly having another child in the future and he said not until I have lost the weight I gained after having Ds. (less than a stone, might I add) He puts me down in front of his friends, quite slyly though.
I don't know what to do. I know what people are going to say. But I just feel so sad and alone at the moment. I feel so stupid and naïve. I just want to cry right now.
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What do I do? :(
elephantintheroom1 · 03/01/2014 21:17
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