Hello,
I have been lurking on this board for a very long time. I have been having problems in my marriage for even longer. A general overview is my husband is a lazy drunk, who is very Nasty,verbally abusive, jealous, but to the outside world a perfect Dad and husband. He has threatened to kill me a couple of times.
Recently, I have been poorly which was mainly triggered by stress. Stress of living with my husband, I think. This has given me the push to leave and make a new life for my children and I.
We have two children age 4 and 2. My youngest child has a learning delay and some behavioural problems, which are currently being assessed by various professionals. Baring this in mind I'm trying to make the move as stress free for them as possible, because my 4 year old can be very sensitive. My husband has refused to move out of our jointly mortgaged home. My solicitor advised me to move out, due to the stress it is having on me and the impact it is having on my health.
So, I'm moving on Friday!! I have told my husband and since then he has turned into a vile, vile person. My 4 year old told me that he had told him our new house is full of monsters and it's horrible and he will never see him again if he moves. I'm deeply shocked that he has said these things to a 4 year old. How utterly vile,, my 4 year old explained to me that his "dad is lying, because monsters are only in stories".
I could write an essay on the things he has done, but it just makes me think that my moving day can't come quick enough. I'm sure he will try and up the ante this week to try and stop us from going. Which I'm very scared of, I keep thinking he is going to do something so I won't be able to go.
Thanks for reading
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Finally leaving..
sparklysausage · 09/12/2013 11:16
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