Can you kind MNetters please help. My previous relationship could have been described as emotionally abusive I suppose. However I was used to the very full on nature of it over a few years. I never had to guess what he was doing or where he was, he was always in contact when we weren't together, always said he loved me and missed me even if he didn't always treat me well
Anyway fast forward to now. Have been seeing a man for a few months. Met online, all good we have got on well and I really like him probably am falling for him. He has told me fairly early on he has strong feelings for me and can see us together. I am just worried now because we seem to see less of eachother not more than the first couple of weeks. I guess it's not the best idea to spend every night together but he doesn't call when we don't see eachother either like he did at the start.
When we are together he's lovely and isn't behaving differently towards me, in fact probably better than before, it's just I feel insecure sometimes. I don't want to tell him because I realise this is probably normal and we are settling into a routine which is do able for us both. Maybe I'm like this because I'm comparing it to the last relationship. He seems to be happy to spend a few nights a week on his own. Am I too clingy?
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What is normal??
20000leagues · 13/11/2013 20:08
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